Taming the Toothbrush Tantrum

Make tooth brushing calm: tips to ease your child's resistance.

2 min read · a quick one you can memorize

The Early Bird Toothbrush Trick

Brushing teeth with a resistant child doesn't need to be a nightly battle. Starting in the morning works surprisingly well. While it won't eliminate the evening brush (the dentist might frown upon that), a quick morning session preps them for the routine and steals some of the evening's thunder.

Why the Fuss?

It's not hard to see why your child screams like they're auditioning for a horror film. Kids often freak out over unfamiliar sensations. Plus, if you've ever tasted a bit of toothpaste yourself, it can be a shocker. Let's not even mention the toothbrush's uncanny resemblance to a tiny weapon.

Tips to Try Today

  1. Choice of Toothpaste: Allow them to choose their own flavor from the store. Bubblegum or watermelon often hits the spot. Avoid mint—it’s like giving them a pepperoni pizza when they asked for cheese.

  2. Brush Together: Stand next to them and make it a joint venture. No dramatic monologue necessary—just say "Let's brush our teeth together!" Works like a charm half the time.

  3. Use a Timer: I have no idea why this one works, but set a timer for two minutes and let the countdown begin. The excitement (or pressure) keeps them engaged.

  4. Narrate a Story: Tell a silly story while you brush. Something about a dragon that hates cavities often keeps my daughter quiet (and interested) long enough.

  5. Reward System: This doesn’t mean a candy bar afterward. Try stickers or a trip to the park for consistent cooperation. A simple, "We can play your favorite game if you let me brush your teeth," might save the day.

A Real Scenario

Say your kid goes full blast with "I hate brushing!" when it's time to head into the bathroom. Try responding with, "Would you like to brush in the bath?" My little one once said, "Yes, if I can wear my dinosaur pajamas!" Fine, dinosaur pajamas it is.

One More Thing

These tips may not magically solve every brushing breakdown, but they should ease the pain. And hey, if nothing works, giving them the toothbrush and letting them go at it themselves isn't the worst idea—at least you're getting somewhere. Good luck with tonight’s battle!