So, How Do You Stop Them?
Let's just rip the band-aid off: redirect their attention immediately. Carry a small toy or book in your purse or, if you're like me and always forget, your pocket will do just fine. When they start licking, whip it out and hand it over. My son, Jake, took to a tiny toy dinosaur (it's been in my bag ever since one of those "Oh no, not the shopping cart handle!" incidents at 4 p.m.).
But Why Do They Do It?
Kids, particularly in the 2-4 age range, explore the world with their mouths. It's oddly fascinating to them (gross, I know), but think of it as their way of taking a mini taste tour of public spaces. It's really about sensory exploration — just like how they might touch everything with sticky fingers at the store.
Practical Solutions to Try
Here's the thing: it's not about scolding them (tried it, regretted it). Instead, offer a choice. "Do you want to hold the toy or read a book?" This gives them control and diverts attention. Also, keep a few disinfecting wipes handy. Sometimes a quick wipe of a tempting surface can reduce their interest, though I've no idea why this works.
Next, consider using a simple phrase like, "We don’t lick that. We can try the toy instead." It doesn't sound revolutionary, but surprisingly, repetition plants the idea. And, speaking from experience, consistency is your friend here.
Finally, if they persist, a gentle physical reminder might help. Holding their hand or guiding it to another task often works wonders. That, and a deep breath (for you, not them).
A Real Scenario
Picture this: you're at the doctor's office. Your little one starts leaning toward the armrest with wide-open mouth. You grimace and say: "Want to see the 'magic' book?" (one of those with flaps or textures). Distracted, they forget the armrest's existence — at least for today.
An Honest Note
This isn't going to fix everything. Some days, nothing works. They'll manage to get one sly lick in at the worst possible moment, like during a family gathering. And honestly, I still mess this up sometimes.
But if you can break the habit 7 out of 10 times, consider it a win. So, what's next? Keep that dinosaur toy ready and stay on your toes. It's a work in progress, just like the rest of parenting.