Breaking the Hand-Licking Habit

Stop hand-licking by understanding need for sensory input.

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So your kid keeps licking their hands. You're worried about germs, and understandably so. Here's a straightforward way to curb this habit.

First, replace the sensation. The licking often meets a sensory need. Try offering a chewable bracelet — the kind you can find online or at your local kid's store by 10 AM on a Saturday (when everyone else is still waking up). These can satisfy the urge without the germs.

Next, tackle the boredom. Sometimes, hand licking is a response to not knowing what else to do. Keep little hands busy with a toy, like a squishy ball or a fidget spinner (don't worry, they still exist). I found keeping one in the car seat saved me a few headaches on road trips.

Catch them early. When you see that little tongue heading for the hand, redirect with, "Hey, can you show me your rainbow hand?" or "Try the chewy bracelet instead." It’s worth noting that this won’t always work — kids are persistent creatures.

I also noticed my son did this more when he was tired. He didn't need me to fight it, just to suggest a nap sometimes (easier said than done). This approach won't stop hand-licking altogether, but it can help identify patterns.

If these strategies don’t cut it or if your kiddo is also struggling with sensory processing differences, consider consulting a pediatrician. Sometimes, what seems like a quirky habit can be a sign of something more.

Try finding a bracelet or toy your child really likes today. It won't fix everything, but it's a small step in the right direction.