The phrase is 'I see you're upset because...', which acknowledges their feelings and helps calm them.
Acknowledging feelings validates the child's emotions, making them feel understood and reducing frustration.
While it's effective often, it may not work every time. Some situations might require different approaches.
Unlike distraction, which diverts attention, acknowledging feelings addresses the root cause of the tantrum.
Ignoring tantrums can lead to frustration for both parties, whereas acknowledging feelings can foster understanding.
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The One Phrase That Stops Toddler Tantrums Instantly