Tip 01

Ever Feel Like You're Always Yelling?

If you've got a toddler at home, you know the sound levels can be intense. I used to shout all the time, but I've found better ways to connect (and keep my sanity).

Alina Boiko
May 7 · 7 slides

Tip 02

It Starts with the Right Tone

When my 5-year-old broke another crayon, I kept my cool by lowering my voice. Somehow, whispering catches their attention more than shouting.

Tip 03

Redirecting Tantrums with Humor

My 3-year-old was mid-tantrum over socks. I started a silly sock puppet show. Distraction? Yes. But it worked (and we both laughed).

Tip 04

Listening (Even When It’s Nonsense)

My 6-year-old once insisted that spaghetti needed to be eaten with scissors. I listened to his reasoning and calmly offered an alternative. We settled on chopsticks.

Tip 05

Short and Simple Works Best

“Shoes on!” is my go-to when we're running late. Concise and to the point (no negotiations, just action).

Tip 06

You’ll Slip, and That’s Okay

There are days when calm goes out the window. Like the time my 2-year-old painted the dog. Just remember, tomorrow is another chance.

Tip 07

Try One Strategy This Week

Pick one new technique to test this week. Maybe it’s whispering or redirecting with humor. You’ll find what clicks for your family.

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Stop Yelling: How to Use Calm Communication with Young Kids
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