Tip 01

What phrase helps calm a child's meltdown?

The phrase 'Tell me what you wanted' helps shift focus and promotes understanding.

Alina Boiko
May 30 · 5 slides

Tip 02

Why doesn't distraction work during meltdowns?

Distractions miss the point as kids want to feel understood, not just distracted.

Tip 03

How does asking 'Tell me what you wanted' help?

It encourages children to express their feelings, fostering communication and empathy.

Tip 04

Is this phrase effective with all children?

While effective for many, results can vary. Some children may need additional support.

Tip 05

Can this method be used for older children?

Yes, it can be adapted for older children by encouraging them to articulate their emotions.

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Finding the Right Words: The Phrase That Calms Your Child's Meltdowns
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