Saying 'okay?' turns a directive into a question, suggesting compliance is optional and undermining your authority.
Use clear, direct instructions without adding 'okay?' to ensure your child understands the expectation.
Follow up with action by helping them start the task, reinforcing the instruction without negotiation.
Yes, consistency helps children understand and meet expectations, reducing confusion and resistance.
Absolutely, clear communication and setting expectations are effective for children of all ages.
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Avoid This Phrase: The Secret to Getting Your Kid to Listen the First Time