Suds Happening!
If pulling your child out of the bath is like dragging a wet cat out of a tree, here's what finally worked for me. It was a casual Tuesday, bath toys were everywhere, and the clock was showing a good 15 minutes past bedtime (again). Somehow, the words 'Bath time is almost over!' only seemed to make the water splash harder.
Make Leaving a Game
Start with the simplest trick: make leaving the bath part of the fun. Try setting a timer (mine's a Cookie Monster one) and tell them they have to catch the 'imaginary fish' before the buzzer rings. Once the timer goes off, they're more open to the idea of stepping out. Who knew a little beep could wield such power?
Offer a Choice
The thing about kids: they like to feel in charge. So, as you're winding down, offer them a choice. 'Do you want to get out now or after one more song?' Suddenly, getting out feels more like their decision and less like a parental mandate. I admit, sometimes this just buys me a few extra verses of 'Baby Shark', but it does help shift the mood.
Use a Cozy Transition
Children don’t just resist because they love the water—sometimes it’s because the next step feels abrupt or unappealing. A fluffy, warm towel or a soft bathrobe can make the transition to dry land much more inviting. I've noticed that when I say 'Time to jump into your cozy towel,' the lure of warmth gets them moving faster than any threat ever did.
Create a Ritual
Kids thrash less when they know what to expect, or at least that's my story and I'm sticking to it. Turn post-bath time into a ritual they look forward to: a special lotion massage (our favorite is Johnson’s baby lotion), or choosing their pajamas from a lineup. More predictability, less drama.
In Practice
Picture this: It's go-time at 7:45. I say, 'Okay, we're going to scoop out the bath toys now and then it's time for the bathrobe party!' They groan, but I start stacking the toys and hand them the last one (a rubber duck that they insist is named Steve). Half the time, they start imitating Steve, demanding to be towel-dried like a celebrity.
A Final Thought
These aren't foolproof. I still mess this up sometimes, usually when I'm rushing or tired. But when they do work, it's glorious. You'll find something that fits your kid and your routine. And remember, nothing's perfect (least of all bath time).