Get Them Walking From Day One
Every morning, just before the caffeine kicks in, you might hear: "Carry me!" It's tempting to pick them up, especially when you're rushing. But setting a routine helps. Try saying, "We'll start walking to the car today."
Why They Beg to Be Carried
Often, it's a mix of comfort, tired legs, and - let's be honest - sheer stubbornness. Kids love being the center of your universe, and carrying them does just that.
Practical Steps to Freedom
- Give Choices: Offer them options (they love feeling in control), "Do you want to hold Teddy or my hand while we walk to the store?"
- Make it Fun: Turn walking into an adventure. Mention seeing a butterfly or counting red cars on the way.
- Time it Right: If they're cranky before dinner, avoid long walks then (they're just like us before our coffee). Aim for times they're energized.
- Encourage Independence: Praise them by saying, "Look how well you're walking today!" Kids eat that up.
Putting it to the Test
The other day at the park, my son plopped down and refused to budge. I said, "Hey, can you show me how fast you can run to that tree?" It worked, sort of... He got halfway there before spotting a worm and stopping.
Try This Today
Next time, use this magic phrase: "We're going inside soon. How do you want to get there? Walking like a cheetah or hopping like a bunny?" They get engaged, you get them moving—everyone wins.